One of the reasons I created with this blog was to put forward all of my thoughts, this is because when it comes to talk to actual people that's where I struggle, I find it hard to find words and even when I do sometimes I don't say them. It is normal in this day and age, it is such a popular thing that many girls struggle with. About 40% of us would describe ourselves this way. It's only a problem if shyness stops us doing stuff we want to.
Being shy myself I was kinda of unsure as to why people are shy so I did abit of googling.
Sometimes people are born timid, while others become shy because of experiences they had, maybe in childhood. For example, being told not to show off or talk to strangers.Other people become shy because they experience things that make them wary - like being rejected, ridiculed or ignored. As a result, self-esteem gets lowered, so they start to avoid the things that made them feel bad - like social contact with other people. Then it becomes habit.
